They feel they are losing their husbands or they are worried because their husband is often angry and irritable. Sometimes they are in my office because the husband had an affair, or because he said he wanted a divorce. I start the therapy process and eventually it comes out there has been very little sex for months or years. It means something is off.
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No one becomes an expert without a little trial and error, and this is as true with oral sex as it is with anything else. Concerns about cleanliness can make husbands and wives wary about oral sex. The solution? I actually think showering together and coming to bed clean is a great precursor to any kind of sexual activity, but it especially makes oral sex more appealing. Anticipation is powerful, especially when it comes to sexual arousal. Pay close attention to caressing and gently massaging his inner thighs, testicles, chest and neck.
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After I slam the car door, I catch a glimpse of my reflection in the window. Then, in the midst of changing positions, I tell him to take a photo. We might text a few times in the next week or two, but only to schedule more sex. When I first met the man who is now my husband, neither of us expected anything beyond friendship and fun, despite our obvious attraction to each other. But we quickly developed a deep connection, and I fell hard and fast for him… which meant letting go of all seven of my sexual partners.
Late last night, my husband returned from a work trip to find me scraping the bottom of a casserole dish. He listed all the ways he was shattered. Then I listed all the ways I was.